andthebluestblue:

stop saying “his or her”

use their

piss off prescriptivists
acknowledge nonbinary identities
make your sentences less clunky
advocate for common usage which is what leads to grammatical acceptance 

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Question of the day

pansexualfacts:

yourfriendlyneighborhoodsatanist:

cloudfreed:

nonbinaryanders:

underknower:

bisexuwhales:

Time for some bi positivity! What’s your favorite thing about being bi? or pan or lgbt in general?

the pure, unfiltered power

The ability to commune with unicorns.

glowing in the dark

Shapeshifting

T H E V O I D

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mazerun:

TMR Characters + quotes from their namesake

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mishasminions:

MY NAME IS DEAN WINCHESTER. CASTIEL IS MY LOVER. PREPARE TO DIE

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thedarkestmindss:

Tyler Posey, Dylan O’Brien and Tyler Hoechlin in an early photoshoot.

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waterbird13:

queen-of-carven-stone:


"Please tell me, what is the upside to me being alive?" 
"Are you kidding me? You and me, fighting the good fight together."

#whomp there it is #if you want Sam to stay alive #you have to make him want to stay alive #by easing that burden #which Dean obviously doesn’t care enough to do #I wish someone cared enough (via waterbird13)

Because Dean hasn’t reminded Sam of what he perceives as Sam’s failings—including being soulless, being with Ruby, and letting Lucifer out—as recently as the end of season eight. Dean doesn’t lay any of that on Sam, or anything.
Because Dean didn’t allow the possession and take away Sam’s ability to consent in season nine, then act like it was no big deal and Sam’s the messed up one for not forgiving him, putting that on Sam more than himself.
Because Sam’s dead lovers aren’t a constant joke played into repeatedly. Recently, that includes in Pac-Man Fever (when Charlie thanked Dean for saving the world and said to Sam “sorry you have zero luck with the ladies”, which, despite having to know that Sam’s lovers dying has to be painful, Dean does nothing about), and in Rock and a Hard Place (when Sam tries to give a reason for his commitment to chastity, saying his relationships hadn’t ended well, and Dean laughs and says “he ain’t lying”).
Because somehow Sam should just “let go” of traumatizing things like the death of loved ones, the fact that his life is in constant danger, the fact that he’s hated by his community, the fact that he’s been repeatedly violated (by Azazel, Meg, Lucifer, Gadreel, Dean, Becky, Gary, Dean, even Mary, to name a few), and the fact that he carries around memories of centuries of torture and the ensuing breakdown that caused.
Because his community doesn’t constantly remind Sam what they think of him, and Dean doesn’t allow it or anything. Dean doesn’t argue or debate Tracy Bell’s assessment of Sam, he just tells her to focus on the hunt. 
Because Dean’s expectations make perfect sense. I mean, it’s not like he’s fluctuated wildly on what Sam should or should no do for him, like how he yelled when he thought Sam saved him in season four, made Sam promise that they’d let each other die, then crucified Sam for not saving him. Because Dean gives real, clear to understand expectations that, really, are something other than “do what I say, when I say it; be okay with what I do, whatever I do, because I know best.” 
Because it’s not like Sam came very close to killing himself at the end of season eight because he thought that finally, finally, that would allow him to live up to some expectations Dean has of him, to finally impress Dean and get Dean to admire him at least a bit.
Sam’s burdens aren’t just because he’s holding on to things and simplifying them to that is a gross misrepresentation. Sam is reminded constantly of the ones he could possible move on from. Trauma is created; things like this stick with someone forever. But they can (metaphorically) weigh less if someone helps with them. Instead, Dean adds that safe to Sam’s back and helps ensure that none of the others will ever be lifted free.
Dean claims having Sam alive is the most important thing, and maybe it is to him. But he is helping shape a situation wherein Sam is so weighed down that those spikes are piercing him. If he wants Sam to live, he should help him want to live, and that means easing the burdens. That means no more bringing up the past with the aim to hurt; respecting that Sam’s been hurt; respecting Sam’s autonomy; thinking about how he treats Sam; giving reasonable expectations that Sam doesn’t have to practically kill himself to attempt to live up to; and reminding Sam that he is there to help carry this weight, if he should need it. Dean can’t fix everything, and no one is saying he should. But if you want a suicidal person to live, you don’t just pull them back from the edge and call that good enough; you make the situation better so they are willingto live, which Dean seems completely unwilling to do—indeed, he rather pile more on, it seems, then help ease some of the burden that is literally killing Sam.

waterbird13:

queen-of-carven-stone:

"Please tell me, what is the upside to me being alive?"

"Are you kidding me? You and me, fighting the good fight together."

 (via waterbird13)

Because Dean hasn’t reminded Sam of what he perceives as Sam’s failings—including being soulless, being with Ruby, and letting Lucifer out—as recently as the end of season eight. Dean doesn’t lay any of that on Sam, or anything.

Because Dean didn’t allow the possession and take away Sam’s ability to consent in season nine, then act like it was no big deal and Sam’s the messed up one for not forgiving him, putting that on Sam more than himself.

Because Sam’s dead lovers aren’t a constant joke played into repeatedly. Recently, that includes in Pac-Man Fever (when Charlie thanked Dean for saving the world and said to Sam “sorry you have zero luck with the ladies”, which, despite having to know that Sam’s lovers dying has to be painful, Dean does nothing about), and in Rock and a Hard Place (when Sam tries to give a reason for his commitment to chastity, saying his relationships hadn’t ended well, and Dean laughs and says “he ain’t lying”).

Because somehow Sam should just “let go” of traumatizing things like the death of loved ones, the fact that his life is in constant danger, the fact that he’s hated by his community, the fact that he’s been repeatedly violated (by Azazel, Meg, Lucifer, Gadreel, Dean, Becky, Gary, Dean, even Mary, to name a few), and the fact that he carries around memories of centuries of torture and the ensuing breakdown that caused.

Because his community doesn’t constantly remind Sam what they think of him, and Dean doesn’t allow it or anything. Dean doesn’t argue or debate Tracy Bell’s assessment of Sam, he just tells her to focus on the hunt. 

Because Dean’s expectations make perfect sense. I mean, it’s not like he’s fluctuated wildly on what Sam should or should no do for him, like how he yelled when he thought Sam saved him in season four, made Sam promise that they’d let each other die, then crucified Sam for not saving him. Because Dean gives real, clear to understand expectations that, really, are something other than “do what I say, when I say it; be okay with what I do, whatever I do, because I know best.” 

Because it’s not like Sam came very close to killing himself at the end of season eight because he thought that finally, finally, that would allow him to live up to some expectations Dean has of him, to finally impress Dean and get Dean to admire him at least a bit.

Sam’s burdens aren’t just because he’s holding on to things and simplifying them to that is a gross misrepresentation. Sam is reminded constantly of the ones he could possible move on from. Trauma is created; things like this stick with someone forever. But they can (metaphorically) weigh less if someone helps with them. Instead, Dean adds that safe to Sam’s back and helps ensure that none of the others will ever be lifted free.

Dean claims having Sam alive is the most important thing, and maybe it is to him. But he is helping shape a situation wherein Sam is so weighed down that those spikes are piercing him. If he wants Sam to live, he should help him want to live, and that means easing the burdens. That means no more bringing up the past with the aim to hurt; respecting that Sam’s been hurt; respecting Sam’s autonomy; thinking about how he treats Sam; giving reasonable expectations that Sam doesn’t have to practically kill himself to attempt to live up to; and reminding Sam that he is there to help carry this weight, if he should need it. Dean can’t fix everything, and no one is saying he should. But if you want a suicidal person to live, you don’t just pull them back from the edge and call that good enough; you make the situation better so they are willingto live, which Dean seems completely unwilling to do—indeed, he rather pile more on, it seems, then help ease some of the burden that is literally killing Sam.

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foxzes:

fakethistoyourgrave:

What’s the word for horny but not in a sexual way like I’m horny for Halloween but I don’t wanna fuck a pumpkin you feel

do u mean excited

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condesces:

*makes a post* *refreshes immediately seeking validation*

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#me
crimical:

duolingo // learn languages for free
rhymezone // type in a word and find words that rhyme
onelook // reverse dictionary
hemingwayapp // check your essay for readability
thesaurus // find synonyms, antonyms and more
planetebook & gutenberg // free ebooks
coursera // free online courses
realtimeboard // a virtual pinboard
pianotte & imslp // free piano sheet music
tunefind // find songs used in movies and tv shows
tothebestof // listen to the top 10 songs of any band or musical artist
omgcatz // download 8tracks playlists
tags.goose // mass tumblr tag replacer
colorpicker // helps you choose #hex colours
wordmark // helps you decide on fonts from your computer
iemoji // copy+paste tool for ios emojis on browsers
simpledesktops & subtlepatterns // simple desktop backgrounds
fount // identify fonts on websites
dafont & googlefonts // places to find lots of fonts
wigflip // pixel speech bubble generator
myfridgefood // check what stuff you have in your fridge and get some recipe ideas
roadtrippers // tool to plan a roadtrip across america
recitethis // turn a quote into a masterpiece
letterboxd // organize the movies you’ve watched, loved and plan on watching
soundrown // listen to various calming sounds

crimical:

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vaginalistic:

attempting to hide your desperate need for breath after a short flight of stairs

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#me